Wednesday, March 21, 2012

The Dreaded

No, it is not what you are reasoning it is. I am talking about the primarily benign website Craigslist, except for the personals section and the therapeutic section. If anything does not know about the lure of Craigslist then maybe I am the only one. Let's just assume that I am not the only one so don't feel foolish for posting this.

Craigslist is one of many sites that compete for the top spot of my moral degradation list. Why? Because plain and easy it brings the fantasy of pornography and video chat sites much closer to home. It facilitates the urge to act on those fantasies because they are now within my grasp. Think about it. Perceived and real way to fantasy is just a few clicks away. With porn sites the real way to the fantasy is far removed with the knowledge that the videos were prerecorded in an undisclosed location. Sure you have Adultfriendfinder and like sites, but those pose too much risk for some. But with Craigslist you can remain relatively undetected and below the radar. It is this near real-time way to our desires, lusts, and fantasies that make Craigslist a hot spot for "nsa" (no strings attached) hook-ups.

Throw Exception

Many of us have heard the bad dream stories of Craigslist hook-ups that had no "happy ending," however, its attraction is so fierce that, for the sex addict, the possibility of gratification compels us to throw all caution and concern out the window. We know the probability of getting Std's, arrested, or worse are very high, but we find that the excitement of actual indulgence draws us like a magnet.

The Dreaded

So what am I supposed to do? Block the site, download responsibility software, throw my Pc out my window? While all of those suggestions are good in their motives and intentions, it doesn't solve the problem. We can and do find ways around any roadblock when it comes to filling our lusts. However, hope is not lost, recovery is not a myth, there is help.

The guidance I am about to give should not be taken lightly and may force you out of your relax zone but if you truly want progressive recovery from lust and the danger of sexual addiction then just Do It!

Find an anonymous group (Sa, Slaa, Sca, or Saa) that will supply you with a sponsor who is committed to helping you 24/7. Yes, I mean you need man to call that can bring you out of your fantasy and back to reality. This is one of the most keys to recovery from sexual addiction. I don't care if you feel uncomfortable calling man for help just Do It! Get over the pride that stands in the way of your recovery and just Do It!

When we begin by examining our daily routines and find the triggers of our lust that lead us into fantasy land, we can survey the starting point. When we perceive the starting point of our destructive cycle we can then be on guard to take any step critical to stop. When we perceive the staring point, we can begin to teach ourselves to recognize the feeling of the pull, the draw, and the attraction so that if we are close to the point of no return we can recognize it and call our sponsor, just Do It!

The DreadedTunisians Gear Up for the Polls Tube. Duration : 2.98 Mins.


Ayman and Ghada met on Jan. 14, he says he fell in love with her because she was revolting, like him. She is a supporter of Al-Nahda party, which he belongs to. He doesn't hide from her the fact that he would like it if she would cover her hair, but he will not impose it, he says. Another matter he doesn't hide is his excitement to see Al-Nahda in power...but though he is confident that his party will be the biggest winner in the coming elections, Ayman can't hide some disappointment because of what he calls the marginalization of the revolution's youth. Ayman ben Ammar a blogger said "As a Tunisian I can vote for the elections. However, we don't all agree with all the ideas and political reforms. We are going to fight against anyone who wants to stop the revolution." Aymanallah, goes further, the activist and author of some of the most popular Tunisian facebook pages believes that the chances of young candidates in the coming elections are dim, despite the fact that over 56 percent of candidates are below the age of 40. Because he says the electoral law gives priority to the top names on the lists, and those in their big majority are from the older generation. "I think my participation in the elections as an active volunteer can positively affect the first Elections in the country. However it is not easy for the youth to influence the elections. I therefore decided to observe with others and realize all our goals," Aymanallah Al Mansoury a facebook activist said ...

Keywords: Tunis, Tunisia, Elections, Polls, Voting, Voters, Activists, Revolutionary, Revoluntion, Protest, Protestors, Demo, Demonstrations, Government, Alia Ibrahim, Al Arabiya English

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